Only with solitude and anonymity, looking at the world and people with impartiality form the outside will you being to begin to understand humanity and the irrelevance of the man-made societies we are forced to live in and whose values and rules we are forced to embrace. But, in today’s world gaining solitude and anonymity can be a challenge, if not impossible.
I have written before that at a basic level you must understand that trust and loyalty have a price and limits… Nothing should be unconditional because this only leads to the abuse of boundaries and respect by the many unscrupulous people in this world. And of course, physical, emotional, and financial abuse can be all part of the package.
It always amuses me when those that abuse others’ trust, even when all the facts are on the table usually cry victim themselves, I suppose because most are cowards… Abusers tend not to like to taste their own medicine, even in small doses. Remember when such people cry, they don’t deserve any sympathy… Most governments act in the same way when their abuses are brought out into the open…
To be truly free from bullshit and in control of yourself, you must have strict rules for interactions and boundaries need to be established and enforced from the start. It’s your life, so your rules. Be assured the parasites will soon realize you are not a victim and happily move on to drain someone else dry of their time, energy, and resources. You won’t be offending them by telling them to “fuck off”, you will be doing them and yourself a huge favor!
But in our societies being selective of who you work with and socialize with can be a luxury for the few who choose to walk away from social conformity. Societies rely on their populations conformity and collectivism to be able to function. This is programed into children as soon as they gain the ability to learn. Seeking your own path outside of the preset educational and career programs is a huge challenge and it’s meant to be this way!
People talk of freedom but from an early age we are indoctrinated into an education system that is not geared towards free thought and progression but programming children for a life within the system. The non-compliant and those whose thought process does not fit with the educational system are written off as trash before their life really even begins.
Compliance within the career systems is essential, if not then, you starve. Gone are the times when leaders were those who were talented and progressive, unless of course you happen to have rich and influential parents. These days the career system is about compliance and obedience for which your reward if you are lucky, is a comfortable life.
Our constructed modern society is in a serious state of regression where freedoms are disappearing and being replaced by rules and regulations that are being put in place for no other reasons than taxation and population control. At first things begin with mild legal structures, that require licenses, permits or taxes from the population to allow them to work for themselves, earn a living or enjoy hobbies all of which should be the basic rights of all humans. As access to such basic rights becomes more difficult the masses will of course always choose the easier and conformist options until the freedoms they once had are forgotten and those still seeking those freedoms are frowned upon.
It seems that most people are happy with the system of having to seek permission and pay tolls for the basic right to exist within a society. But do they know anything different? And if they know are they just too afraid to challenge the system and jeopardize their comforts?
Modern societies have evolved from feudal systems and still operate in exactly the same ways… The elites and the commoners… As our modern system evolves the distance and divisions between the elites and the commoners are becoming greater. And with this the chances of a commoner, however talented, being able to lead and influence their own societies becomes more and more distant.
But, people are lead to believe, by their modern day feudal masters, that they are free, that they live in democracies where they have the power to choose their own future and leaders. This is all a fallacy… Step outside of your system or get above your allocated place and see what happens… Or just voice your opinions and see who actually cares…
The social structures we live in were developed by humans for the benefit of the few, the elites. Remember, laws governing victimless crimes were for the most put in place to protect the interests of a few and to tax and control the general population. The education system is designed to indoctrinate children into the system. Modern societies require compliance and conformity and the fear of individuality.
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